Opening a film with a small child straining on a toilet and talking about poop isnt just a bad idea; its an invitation to unfortunate metaphor.
Trust the Man (2006)
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Reviews Counted:100
Fresh:28
Rotten:72
Average Rating:4.6/10
Consensus: What aspires to be a sophisticated, unconventional romantic comedy turns out to be a contrivance-filled pretender to other, better films of its genre.
Runtime: 1 hr 43 mins
Genre: Dramas
US Box Office: $1,466,103
Synopsis: A lighthearted meditation on the cares and commitments of adulthood, Bart Freundlich's rom-com drama is a witty, ultra-contemporary vision of urban love. Two Manhattan couples enjoy complicated... A lighthearted meditation on the cares and commitments of adulthood, Bart Freundlich's rom-com drama is a witty, ultra-contemporary vision of urban love. Two Manhattan couples enjoy complicated relationships: Tom and Rebecca (David Duchovny and Julianne Moore) are a glamorous married couple with two kids and a troubled sex life; Rebecca's best friend, Elaine (Maggie Gylenhaal), is in a long-term relationship with Rebecca's brother, Tobey (Billy Crudup), who is also Tom's best friend. Tom has recently quit his advertising job to be a stay-at-home dad, and Rebecca is a successful actress with a depleting libido; thus, despite the couple's obvious closeness, Tom's porn consumption and general distraction have increased considerably. Meanwhile, Elaine juggles a stressful job in publishing and a fledgling career as a children's-book author, while Tobey's job as a copywriter is considerably less demanding. It is soon evident that Tobey has never quite grown up, and when Elaine decides that she wants to get married and have kids, she realizes she'll have to do it with someone else. The turmoil that ensues contains a number of hilarious, emotionally charged encounters between friends and lovers, and an undeniably romantic conclusion. The tale unfolds anecdotally in a style of verbal sparring that recalls Woody Allen; so too does the preponderance of recognizable New York locations, in a view of the city that makes the most of its charms. The movie also boasts well-executed cameos by Ellen Barkin as an imperious publisher, James LeGros as an eccentric songster, Eva Mendes as a temptress from Tobey's past, and Gary Shandling as an earringed therapist. [More]
Starring: David Duchovny, Julianne Moore, Billy Crudup, Maggie Gyllenhaal
Starring: David Duchovny, Julianne Moore, Billy Crudup, Maggie Gyllenhaal, Bob Balaban, Ellen Barkin, James LeGros, Garry Shandling, Eva Mendes, Liam Broggy, Justin Bartha, Sterling K. Brown
Director: Bart Freundlich
Director: Bart Freundlich
Producer: Tim Perell
Composer: Clint Mansell
Studio: Fox Searchlight Pictures
Reviews for Trust the Man
With its self-conscious literary references and trendy settings, Trust the Man quickly begins to feel hopelessly derivative of other, better movies.
Trust the Man could easily carry the following subtitle: Men Who Behave Like Petulant, Spoiled Children and the Women Who Decide It's Easier to Love Them As-Is Than To Try to Turn Them Into Grownups.
By the end, I felt empty and unconvinced that I'd spent 103 minutes with genuine personalities.
A touching and often very funny film about real relationships, with a sincere belief in love in all its swooning, complicated glory.
Pity the poor Hollywood husband, trudging along in the shadow of his famous wife while nursing underappreciated artistic ambitions of his own.
Like a few too many of this year's adult offerings, this one is a diversion. It's not unpleasant, but it doesn't offer a 'must see' night at the movies.
The film presents itself as a funny, insightful Manhattan relationship comedy in Woody Allen mode, but morphs into the phoniest of Hollywood rom-coms.
... A lot of big, dumb romantic comedies from name actors and major studios coast by on charm and charisma; why can't a small, dumb romantic comedy from lesser-known talents and micro-studios get the chance to do the same thing?
Don't hate them because they're beautiful. On second thought, go right ahead.
Often falters in its attempt to find humor in the mundane lives of shallow New Yorkers.
For all the promise of a cast led by Julianne Moore and David Duchovny in an urbane, adult chronicle of love and marriage, the movie just strings viewers along through phony contrivance, like any other romantic comedy.
Aims to be more cultivated than the norm, [but] considerably more sour and shrill than most examples of the genre.
[The] characters don't mean anything because they don't say anything or do anything that feels rooted in the nitty-gritty of the everyday.
Unfortunately in this New York, no crisis is insurmountable, and no upscale downtown restaurant is deprived of product placement.
Until someone truly reinvents the stagnant romantic-comedy genre, trifles like Bart Freundlich's Trust the Man will have to suffice.
Sharp dialog, superb performances and a congenial tone all win us over, even if it feels somewhat simplistic.
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